family portraits during metro detroit newborn session

Welcoming a new baby into the family is an exciting time, but it can also be a big adjustment for older siblings. As parents, we want to make sure that our firstborns still feel just as loved and valued while celebrating the arrival of their new baby brother or sister. By intentionally including older siblings in this journey, we can help them embrace their new role with confidence and joy. Here are some meaningful ways to make big brothers and sisters feel special after the baby arrives.

newborn session with parents holding both big sister and little newborn baby brother at their utica mi newborn session

1. Spend One-on-One Time with Older Siblings

It’s easy to get caught up in newborn care, but setting aside time for just you and your older child can make a world of difference. Whether it’s reading a book before bed, grabbing a quick treat together, or going for a short walk, these moments remind them that they are still a priority. Even 10-15 minutes of focused attention can make them feel seen and loved.

newborn baby session with parents and her big sister in utica mi

2. Plan Special Sibling-Only Time

Older siblings may feel left out with so much attention on the baby. Create opportunities for them to bond in their own way. A “Sibling Date” with a fun activity—like a movie night, craft time, or a visit to their favorite playground—helps reinforce that their role in the family is just as important.

mom and big sister looking at newborn baby brother at their session in shelby township mi

3. Keep Bedtime and Weekly Routines Intact

Consistency is comforting, especially for young children. Try to keep bedtime routines, special weekend traditions, or other regular activities the same after the baby arrives. This stability helps them feel secure and reminds them that their place in the family hasn’t changed.

toddler big brother and newborn sister at shelby township mi photography studio

4. Let Them Help with the Baby

Giving older siblings small, age-appropriate responsibilities can make them feel included and important. Whether it’s helping grab a diaper, singing to the baby, or picking out an outfit, these little tasks make them feel proud of their role as the big brother or sister.

siblings with newborn baby sister during their metro detroit newborn session

5. Talk About Their Feelings

A new baby can bring a mix of emotions—excitement, jealousy, curiosity, and even frustration. Encourage your older child to talk about their feelings and reassure them that it’s okay to feel all of these things. Having open conversations can help them process the changes in a healthy way.

parents and big brother holding baby newborn sister at their rochester hills mi newborn session

6. Celebrate Their Role as a Big Sibling

Make a big deal about their new title! A fun “Big Brother” or “Big Sister” gift, a framed photo of them with their new sibling, or a special outing just for them can make them feel proud and excited about this transition.

siblings with their newborn baby brother in utica mi photo studio

7. Include Them in Newborn Photos

Capturing the bond between siblings in a newborn photography session is a beautiful way to make them feel included. Encouraging them to snuggle up with the baby, give gentle kisses, or hold their tiny hands creates images they will treasure as they grow.

newborn session with big sister and parents holding baby girl

Bringing a new baby home is a special time for the whole family. By making sure older siblings feel valued, loved, and included, you’re setting the foundation for a beautiful sibling bond that will last a lifetime.

Would you like to plan a newborn session that includes big brothers and sisters? Let’s chat about capturing these sweet family moments!

Including Older Siblings: How to Make Big Brothers and Sisters Feel Special